Conversational Hypnosis Techniques – The Slow Smile
One of the best sales trainers, Dale Carnegie has always stressed the importance of the “smile”. The smile is so important, Carnegie wrote an entire chapter about it in his book, How To Win Friends And Influence People.
Since then, many sales and business trainers and stage speakers have adopted this approach.
When you are learning how to use conversational hypnosis, one of the ways to influence the other person is to create a safe and comfortable environment. Smiling before a conversation will create that effect.
However, a simple grin on your face would not work anymore. It may work back in the 1930s, during Dale Carnegie’s time, but in the modern world, you will need more than that.
Most people nowadays find it hard to trust people. We are highly suspicious of people, especially if they are a stranger.
Therefore, we need more than a simple grin. We need to fine tune our smile so it will have a bigger impact when we are to initiate a conversation.
Most people can see through a fake smile. People are quick to put on a big smile with teeth flaring because that is just the way they are. A fake smile lacks warm and sincerity.
Here’s a trick that you can use the next time you smile. Do a slow smile, meaning start from a tight lip grin and slowly transform it into a wide and cheerful smile.
I read about this slow smile technique from Leil Lowndes’ book How To Talk To Anyone. Apparently, it works but I can’t explain why. I don’t understand how a television works either, but I would gladly use it.
Since a slow smile will set the stage for you to use verbal hypnosis, it makes sense to use it. What we want is to get our message across. Politicians and corporate leaders are using it, we might as well use it for our own advantage.
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Well all i can say is Learning the art of conversational hypnosis has become really very essential nowadays, we can simply implement these tactics in our day to day life and can make influence people to go along with your opinion.